Loadshedding solutions for home office workers (that won’t break the bank)

A friend who lives in Melbourne, Australia complained on Facebook that he had been without electricity for several hours, in a curfew. His laptop died on him, and there he was in the dark with only his thoughts for company.

I smiled slightly but did not comment.

And recent news from Sydney that residents had been asked to conserve power in the evening as much as possible to avert blackouts prompted the same wry smile.

After all, there is no real joy in claiming the high ground on the question of being without power. All the tips I could give Australians are not really needed: sitting in the dark probably won’t happen to them again for months or even years.

Here in South Africa of course we all know what it is to be without power – that state of being for which we all grudgingly use the Eskom term: loadshedding. Continue reading

Yes, we did make a mess. Taking responsibility has nothing (and everything) to do with the personal

(SPOILER ALERT: If you haven’t watched The Good Place, and want to, don’t read this post!)

There’s a moment in television series called The Good Place – available in South Africa on Netflix – where Michael (a demon cunningly disguised as Ted Danson) realises why it is that so few people make it into heaven, the good place of the title.

It’s because being a good person is incredibly complicated. No matter what you do, there are unintended consequences. Even when you buy a tomato.

He explains it here to Judge Gen, the all-knowing judge found in the Neutral Zone between the Bad Place and the Good Place (watch from 1:30 if you are short on time):

What he is talking about is responsibility – the way in which we are accountable for our actions. In the universe of The Good Place, if buying a tomato means you have unwittingly supported the use of toxic pesticides, that counts against you personally in the quest for a pleasant afterlife.

The Good Place is just a TV series, and it may be that our tomato purchases are not actually a criteria for making it into paradise. But thinking about the issue of responsibility and how it intersects with the world we live in is worth doing.

What is responsibility?

Three definitions from the Oxford Dictionary sum it up:

  • The state or fact of having a duty to deal with something or of having control over someone:
  • The state or fact of being accountable or to blame for something
  • A moral obligation to behave correctly towards or in respect of (something)

I’ve been thinking about the issue of responsibility on and off for years, perhaps because I often find myself taking responsibility for things. If and when I get a tattoo, it will be the words “There’s me”, taken from this passage in a Terry Pratchett novel (I have quoted this before, here, in which young witch Tiffany Aching is facing the end of the world in the absence of her mentor, Miss Tick):

“You’d better tell me what you know, toad,” said Tiffany. “Miss Tick isn’t here. I am.”

“Another world is colliding with this one,” said the toad. “There. Happy now? That’s what Miss Tick thinks. But it’s happening faster than she expected. All the monsters are coming back.”


“There’s no one to stop them.”

There was silence for a moment.

“There’s me,” said Tiffany.

Because I see the world through this prism, I’m not necessarily the most popular person at a dinner party – I tend to go on about things, and be bossy. But I will be the one who always helps clear the table and makes sure the last drunken guest takes an Uber.

From clearing the table to saving the world

I recently asked this question on a LinkedIn post about an article I wrote about the mess the world is in:

What one thing could old people do to fix the mess we made of the world?

To which one person replied: “No, we did not mess up the world.”

My response: We didn’t personally mess up the world. But collectively, it happened on our watch.

What does that mean?

To me, it means that a key part of being a human is understanding that our personal lives are not separate from bigger systems, which are built around us, as we live our lives, by people who are just like us. And they are often people who we ourselves voted into power.

What to do?

The first step is a mental shift – a way of looking at the world in which we do not simply say “that’s someone else’s problem” (SEP), as described in Douglas Adams’s novel Life, The Universe and Everything:

An SEP is something we can’t see, or don’t see, or our brain doesn’t let us see, because we think that it’s somebody else’s problem. That’s what SEP means. Somebody Else’s Problem. The brain just edits it out, it’s like a blind spot.

By saying that big issues like climate change or political polarisation or poor leadership are “out there”, not part of our small personal lives, we diminish ourselves. We give ourselves permission to make them someone else’s problem.

Think again of Ted Danson’s tomato. You can solve some of the problem by growing your own (if you have the means). You could research the chains of production that brought that tomato to your local supermarket. You might pressure that supermarket to change its suppliers. Or you can elect leaders who care about agriculture and climate change and good stewardship of the land (which means you are going to have to do some work, researching the candidates and their parties).

What you should not do is just eat the tomato, and say you have no responsibility for the way it was produced. Particularly if you are at a dinner party with me.

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Reader’s corner – June, 2022: Getting carried away

My name is Renee and I don’t belong to a book club.

There: the truth is out. There are many ways to fail at being a middle-class woman and not belonging to a book club is one of them.

Somehow, when book clubs became a thing, I wasn’t paying attention. It’s probable that I was hanging about in pubs at the time, with various other reprobates. Or perhaps I was too busy reading.

The thing is, left to myself, I can read more books in any given week than I have hot meals. I mean this – I could comfortably get through two books a day if people would leave me in peace. Continue reading

Writing tips: How to make paragraphs

Long ago, at school, there was an English lesson about how and where to break text into paragraphs.

As I remember it, we were taught that that one thought or subject should be contained within the same paragraph.

The wonderful Grammar Girl agrees. She says:

Paragraphs represent ideas, and ideas come in many sizes. The most important point should be at the beginning of a paragraph — often, that point is called a topic sentence — and you use the rest of the paragraph to develop the point further.

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What journalists do (part two): the checking of the facts

Earlier this year, I wrote about the problem of knowing which journalists or publications to trust in a sea of contradictory information.

After I had published the post, I realised that there was a throwaway line about “proper journalism processes” that could do with some expansion. I said:

… a place to start might be local, and small. If there’s a small community publication or radio station in your area, start there. Listen to their reports, read their articles. Does what they say seem fair and reasonable to you, does it match with what you know to have happened in the place that you live? If you are lucky enough to find such a publication, pay attention to the wider sources that they may be using and quoting. Because if they have applied the proper journalism processes to their own work (with the end result that their journalism matches with your knowledge of the world), they will be applying those processes to all the sources they use.

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