End-of-year burnout and what to do about it

It’s the end of a long year, and we’re all tired. But what if tiredness is a symptom of burnout – and what should one do about it? 

Every meeting I’m in, every person I talk to, the same refrain comes up: end of year, tired, no brain, can’t wait for the holidays.

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Lessons learned in a small building project

Project management is not just for building skyscrapers, or highways. It also happens on a small scale. The principles are the same though… 

We are in the preparatory stages of a small building project. We are not yet covered in dust and battling with noise, but those things will be happening soon.

The project is to convert a single garage on our property into a studio flat which we can rent out – the thinking being that this might help with our somewhat beleaguered retirement planning (or at least the planning for the days when our income might contract, since retirement doesn’t seem to be a realistic option).

So far we’ve had the plan passed by our local council (which took about three months) and raised the finance (a mortgage, raised from scratch on our paid-up house, which took two-and-a-half months).

Currently we’re rearranging things in our garden to accommodate the possibility of finding parking for an extra car (and this part of the project was also part of the approval process at the council – Cape Town municipal by-laws are nit-picky as hell.)

Simultaneously, we’re trying to get quotes from various service people on the initial stages of the work – plumbing being the first port of call. As always, getting quotes is much harder than it should be. Five inquiries might get two people to your house, of whom only one will actually do a quote.

We vacillate between thinking that we’ll hire a contractor to just do all the work – and then, when that seems too expensive, we think we’ll do the project ourselves, calling on specialists when we need them.

But project management still needs to happen! 

Either way, though, this is still a project that needs managing and thinking about. Along the way, we’ve learned some things which may be of use to other people contemplating doing something similar.

ONE: expect things to take longer than you can imagine

We knew that getting the plans passed would take time: the ways of municipalities everywhere are inscrutable. What we did not expect was the length of time it took to raise a mortgage. To us it seemed pretty straightforward: we were asking for a small amount of money secured by a paid-up asset (the amount we wanted is about 17% of the value of our house) with a business plan: make flat, rent out, rental covers cost of mortgage. But the process was complex – the bank seemed unable to grasp any of the details of the project from the outset, and the “consultant” we were assigned had a special talent for evading our requests for clarity. But we got it done in the end. If we’d had a building contractor already lined up, though, this delay would have been a lot more stressful than it was. Rule of thumb – estimate how long you think something will take, and then mulitply that by three. 

TWO: expect there to be emotional reactions

When you are changing things in a house you have lived in for a long time, there can be unexpected reactions. The garage has long been a workshop for my husband, and the process of clearing it out and downscaling his workspace has happened in fits and starts. That’s because it symbolizes a shift in the work he does, a move from the physical repairing of TVs to finding a niche in the world of flatscreen and fibre. For me, changing things in the garden has meant accepting that cherished homespun landscaping has to be moved, or taken out, or adapted. All in all, it’s important to be aware of these possible obstacles to getting things done.

THREE: tailor your way of working to the people involved

I do project management as part of my work in my business, and that usually involves a spreadsheet with tasks and assignments and deadlines and colour-coded timelines. So I made one of those. And then wondered what I was thinking. The main person actually implementing the project is my husband, a man who doesn’t answer emails and never switches on a computer. So now we have a scrappy piece of cardboard, with the weeks drawn on it in permanent marker and various stickies indicating what needs to happen when. (The stickies are colour-coded – I had to draw a line somewhere). This is a lesson I will take with me into my professional work: a project plan only works if the people involved will actually use it.

And so we continue. A plumber has promised to give us a quote this Friday. Let’s hold thumbs!

READ: Project management for beginners

Main picture: Kelly Sikkema, Unsplash

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Things I have learned from being retrenched (twice)

In 2002 I was at last pregnant.

After two years of fertility treatment, we had done it. Things were going well. We owned our own house, our relationship was strong, I had a good job. I was worried about how I was going to manage a baby and a career but I thought I would figure it out.

That was not how it was going to pan out, though.

At about the six or seven months mark of my pregnancy, I found myself in the boss’s office being told that my job was being made redundant. I was given a good package and a generous baby shower, and shown the door.

My therapist was a little unsympathetic, pointing out that being retrenched was not as bad as, say, losing a baby. With hindsight, she was of course right.

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Decluttering – a new trick learned

In August 2021, I used the Women’s Day weekend to declutter and tidy our house. Then, over the course of a year, piles of invisible objects gathered again.

(In our house, the phrase “invisible objects” means things that have been lying around for so long that they are no longer seen).

So I spent this year’s Women’s Day weekend covered in dust and filled with feelings of self-satisfaction.
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